What is going on?

vmind3
Jun 22, 2015
2 min read

Welcome you to my blog!

I am currently working through an NLP course as well as learning other skills and abilities from my sister Hilla (watch this space for more about her and our Headdiction® method).

Experience tells me that explaining things to others as well as reframing the material I am learning into my own circumstances will help me remember it all better, and since I think my friends would soon get bored and drive me out of their house with a broom if i talked about it all day (sometimes I think they're close as it is!) - I decided to start this blog as a mental excercise and a way to perhaps benefit anyone out there interested (or bored enough...) to read it.

At this point I would like to tell you about the first, and to me the most important lesson of NLP. Anything that happens to us in life is our resposibility. EVERYTHING that happens to us in life is our responsibility. It doesn't mean it is our fault, but it is our responsibility to ourselves to take ownership and learn the best way for us to deal with it, because when we live like that we act as if we have 100% power over our lives. Whether this is true or not is not the point, if we live like this is true then we empower ourselves every day of our lives in everything we do, or in dealing with anything life throws at us.

This has been reframed as 'Response Ability': by aquiring tools to deal with events, people and changes within your life, you will be able to respond accordingly and successfuly, reaching the outcomes you set yourself - rather than things 'just happening' to you.

So The disclaimer here is that while I do hope you enjoy reading and find things you can apply within your own life - anything written throughout this blog is my interpretation of things I am learning from other sources, and by choosing to read and use anything from the site you are taking the responsibility onto yourself.

Having said that, I would love to read your comments about thoughts, corrections, interpretations, experiences and insights you have from reading or trying things for yourself - it will help me grow as a person and as a practitioner.

All the best,

Inbal